Chapter 133 Uncle 2
Chapter 133 Uncle 2
This year, everyone gathered at Chen Yu's house.
This was all agreed upon. We would get together as a family once a year and take turns.
On the third day of the Chinese New Year, the wives of my two uncles arrived with their husbands and their children.
Chi Xiaotong, along with the others, gave out red envelopes one by one. She had the same status as Chen Chengyu, so she didn't know what to do or how to call, so she just followed Chen Chengyu and she wouldn't make any mistakes!
In previous years, Chen Chengyu was followed by only Chen Chengshan, but this year there were four more. Not only did she have to greet everyone herself, she also had to introduce Yuanyuanman.
Chi Xiaotong really couldn't understand the hierarchy here. It was fine if she could figure it out slowly, but with so many people reacting so quickly, her brain couldn't keep up!
Tian Yu remembered people very quickly, and after one round, he knew everyone! The seniority was also clearly arranged!
As for Tuan Tuan, he had already been taken away by Chen's father! He showed off his grandchildren to everyone! Except for the youngest, Chen Yu's family, everyone else had grandchildren! Only his family didn't even have a married person!
Chi Xiaotong is his daughter, and he got a grandson for free, so of course he had to hug her a lot and show it to everyone! Tuantuan is not afraid of strangers, and everyone lets everyone hug him! Everyone praised him for being well-behaved, and Chen's father smiled happily!
When they are big enough, let them go and play with the main group!
After a day, Chi Xiaotong felt dizzy because there were too many people. She finally understood the excitement of a large family.
It was lively and noisy, especially with a bunch of kids, they quickly got to know each other and played together!
It's only two days and we all have to go back. Everyone has something to do and can't be away from others for too long.
But even in such a short time, Chi Xiaotong still felt something was wrong.
The second uncle's family didn't seem to be particularly harmonious. She saw that the two wives and husbands were not like the other couples, who seemed to have a very close relationship.
In private, Chi Xiaotong asked Chen Chengyu if he had seen it wrong or what was going on?
"You read that right. Something is indeed happening at my second uncle's house! My second uncle's wife has someone else outside. She must be trying to keep her secretly outside, but she was discovered before she did anything!"
"Ah?" Chi Xiaotong was shocked.
"She just saw that her grandmother had passed away and thought that her second uncle had no one to rely on and was easy to bully! That's why she had evil thoughts! Her family is not good either. Her second uncle is not in good health! He only gave birth to a daughter.
At that time, she was injured in a difficult birth. When my grandmother passed away, her family said that one daughter was enough! They would not force my second uncle to have more children, and would not take in a maid!
After my grandmother passed away, they regretted it! They wanted to give my second uncle's wife a maid! That was impossible! At that time, my eldest aunt, my mother, and my third aunt rushed over as soon as they heard the news!
Even though his grandmother was not around, he still had sisters! The Chen family would not tolerate bullying even if the child was married out.
Not to mention, my mother and my third aunt were both raised by my second uncle! I was not brought up with me at the time, and I heard about it later when I heard them chatting. It seems that my mother almost beat up my second uncle's wife!
If my second uncle hadn't stopped me, my mother and third aunt would have torn down their house!"
"How is the result?"
"If we divorce, it will hurt my second uncle too much. He is also afraid that it will affect us, and he is a little reluctant and doesn't want to divorce!
I heard my mother sigh that it was his wife who took the initiative to pursue my second uncle! She was also very good to my second uncle! My second uncle still misses the old times!
In the end, it was my second uncle’s wife who swore that she would never let my second uncle down again in her life and would treat him well in the future, and only then did she give up!
The most she dared to do was to keep a mistress behind people's backs! Unfortunately, she was discovered before the house was even ready!
She doesn’t dare to be tough with my family! Not to mention my mother and my third aunt. She can’t even afford to offend my eldest aunt!”
Chi Xiaotong nodded. She had never known what official position Chen Shang held, but his status was definitely not low.
"Every generation of ours must have someone with status and position, just to support the family! You don't have to do anything, as long as you reach that position, no one will dare to mess with you!"
This is true, as long as you don't abuse your power, support your family members, and don't give anyone a backdoor! As long as you sit high, no one will bother you!
"When it comes to me, my eldest sister is holding on! We can be more casual! This is the consensus in our family!" Chen Chengyu continued.
No wonder, Chi Xiaotong understood this time!
As long as there is one person in a family who can maintain his status in the family, that is enough!
Chen Chengwen passed the exam, and other children in the family don’t have to take the exam if they don’t want to, and the adults in the family won’t force them.
Chen Chengjun will take over Chen Yu's job, and only Chen Chengyu is still traveling around. Chen's mother is not in a hurry, which makes it clear that the family does not need you to stand out. What are you fighting for! Just live your own life well!
As for the younger ones, the older sisters are the ones who support the family! They can all choose what they like!
"Yes, there is someone supporting us from above, so we are much freer below!"
"We don't force anything in my family. My eldest sister is very gifted in studying! She's amazing! She's not like me, who doesn't like to study! If she was like me and didn't want to study, my aunt wouldn't force her!"
Chen Chengyu was afraid that Chi Xiaotong would misunderstand. Her family was very democratic and they would not force anyone to study just because someone had to stand out.
"My mother and others never told us these! We discovered them all on our own!" Chen Chengyu said proudly.
"Well, you guys are awesome!" Chi Xiaotong agreed.
This set of rules was somewhat similar to what she had seen before, the principles of training younger generations in wealthy families: the eldest son seeks stability, the second son takes risks!
"Let me tell you, now! It seems that the second uncle has a good relationship with his wife! But the estrangement can't be eliminated. Not to mention, her family is making trouble!
But they didn't dare to go too far! If the second uncle doesn't say anything, we won't intervene and let him solve it himself. Once the second uncle complains, their family will definitely suffer! "Chen Chengyu was a little angry.
"It's all because of the trouble caused by my second uncle's wife's family! That's why I didn't agree with you marrying your brother-in-law in the beginning! Learn from the past! Children raised in such a family will not have good personalities!"
"So what do you think now? What is your brother-in-law's character like?"
"I'm a little too weak, but I listen to you and stand firmly behind you, which is not bad! As long as you grasp it, there will be no problem!"
"Xiaoyu will definitely be happy to know that you approve of him!" Chi Xiaotong knew that Chen Chengyu was just being stubborn, and what she said was an acknowledgement. But what she said was not bad either. Tian Yu's temper was indeed a little soft, but it was not a problem. As long as she was here, she would never be bullied!
"What do you think about my second uncle's family?"
"Second uncle is not strong, nor is he someone who will suffer a loss. He is the one who is in charge now!"
“In fact, a person’s family is not the only factor. As long as one is determined, one will not be influenced by others!
The second uncle is the head of the family, with a big family behind him, so he is confident. His wife treats him well now, and he is willing to maintain this relationship. Isn't that enough?
It's because her wife wasn't firm enough that this happened. You can't hate all the bad people in the family just because of this!"
Chen Chengyu thought about it carefully and it seemed to be the case.
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